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Vol. VI · September 2026

Three practices that will improve our lives by J. Ré Crivello

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Friday, you wake up and must write after having dinner the night before with some ceramics colleagues.

And you see how House of the Dragon challenges us: What will I write about on a Friday? And you go on ruling things out: about the upcoming fall of the Sánchez government?, about this autumn of rain and warm-ish weather?; about former versions of oneself? And right there, a letter to a young writer from 2017 appears?

I say there:

“A first element to consider: self-demandingness is good up to a limit, after which it destroys us. And I notice that you must get doubts out of the way and write without caring about what might come out, always without fear and with strength. Our own work is often made and grows from errors as well,” come on, writing is almost the same as having a good life—you build it as you go.

“A second element, our own activity that forces us to deliver material on time, and that is your own mysterious boss living inside you and the very possibility of having an interlocutor to talk to and be read by.” Good professionals do not have bosses—and neither do writers; they are that direction that one drives forward because they believe that is how it ought to be.

“And third, the discovery of writing’s therapeutic capacity (like painting, ceramics, or any other aspect of art, or of any profession), as well as, tied to that, the ability to communicate (a dream, a gesture, an image, a maternal or paternal rejection)—in short, the spark that turns us into communicators of fiction or essays.” Or turns us into good professionals.

Resolving each of these aspects makes us healthier and gives us joy. It’s Friday—shall we choose, for our professions, self-demandingness, the mysterious inner boss, and therapeutic capacity for our activities?

Let’s go!

Note: My thanks to my three ceramics friends: Marga, Patricia, and Luis for the inspiration.


Comparison and Analysis by Google’s Gemini

The text by Juan Ré Crivello articulates a reflection on the act of writing and the structuring of one’s own life through three fundamental pillars: managing self-demandingness, internal discipline without external bosses, and the therapeutic/communicative function of creation. Below is an analysis of its premises and a comparison with canonical authors and essays that address these same themes.

Analysis of J. Ré Crivello’s Text

The author begins from an everyday, reflective state (a Friday after a dinner) and uses the concept of House of the Dragon as a metaphor for the creative challenge or the uncertainty we face. After dismissing current political affairs or the weather, he retrieves a letter of his own from 2017 to extrapolate the lessons of writing to professional and personal life.

  • Self-demandingness and the value of error: He posits that excessive self-demandingness blocks the creator. Writing (and living) requires losing the fear of failure, understanding that growth stems from daily experimentation.
  • The inner boss and personal responsibility: He maintains that a true professional does not need external supervision; they are driven by an internal voice demanding commitment and adherence to deadlines, transforming discipline into self-management.
  • The therapeutic and communicative function: Art and work act as channels of catharsis that allow for processing internal conflicts (personal or family-related) and transforming them into communication with others.

Comparison with Other Works and Literary Essays

1. On self-demandingness and the fear of error

  • Rainer Maria Rilke — Letters to a Young Poet (1929):Just as Ré Crivello turns to his own «letter to a young writer,» Rilke advises the young Franz Xaver Kappus to look inward and not seek external approval. Rilke agrees that doubts should not paralyze, but rather be integrated into the process of inner maturation.
  • Julia Cameron — The Artist’s Way (1992):Cameron theorizes about «morning pages,» proposing to write without judging the preliminary outcome in order to deactivate paralyzing perfectionism. Ré Crivello’s idea of «writing without caring about what might come out, always without fear» connects directly with this method of unlocking creativity.

2. On the «inner boss» and daily discipline

  • Steven Pressfield — The War of Art (2002):Pressfield conceptualizes the internal struggle against procrastination under the term «Resistance.» He fully agrees with Ré Crivello that the professional does not wait for inspiration nor respond to external pressure, but shows up to work daily out of an internal ethical imperative.
  • Ernest Hemingway — A Moveable Feast (1964):Hemingway describes the work routine in Paris cafés as an exercise in daily self-obligation. For Hemingway, knowing when to stop and when to demand material the following day is the mark of the craftsman who has internalized their own limits and responsibilities.

3. On the therapeutic capacity of writing and art

  • Sigmund Freud — Creative Writers and Day-Dreaming (1908):Freud argues that artistic creation is a continuation of child’s play—a way to channel unresolved desires or traumas (such as the paternal or maternal rejections mentioned by Ré Crivello) and transform them into socially acceptable and communicable material.
  • Siri Hustvedt — A fascination with neuroscience and various essays on art and grief:Hustvedt has exhaustively explored how symbolic representation—through painting, writing, or ceramics—allows for structuring traumatic experiences and bestowing meaning upon them outside the individual mind.

Comparative Summary

DimensionJ. Ré CrivelloCompared Works / AuthorsPoint of Convergence
Acceptance of error«Our own work is often made and grows from errors.»The Artist’s Way (Julia Cameron)Overcoming paralysis caused by perfectionism through continuous practice.
Autonomy and discipline«Good professionals do not have bosses… they are that direction that one drives forward.»The War of Art (Steven Pressfield)Professionalism lies in self-motivation and internal commitment.
Art as catharsis«Therapeutic capacity… to communicate a maternal or paternal rejection.»Creative Writers and Day-Dreaming (Sigmund Freud) / RilkeArtistic expression as a vehicle to process psychological conflict.
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