Edith Wharton on Ageing by Luisa Zambrotta

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American novelist, Edith Wharton, born on 24 January 1862, was the first woman to win the Pulitzer Prize for literature in 1921 for her novel “The Age of Innocence”

In 1934, when she was seventy-two, she published her autobiography “A Backward Glance”. [I’ll be seventy-two tomorrow as well.]
These are the introductory words:

A FIRST WORD

Years ago, I said to myself: “There’s no such thing as old age; there is only sorrow.”

I have learned with the passing of time that this, though true, is not the whole truth. The other producer of old age is habit: the deathly process of doing the same thing in the same way at the same hour day after day, first from carelessness, then from inclination, at last from cowardice or inertia. Luckily the inconsequent life is not the only alternative; for caprice is as ruinous as routine. Habit is necessary; it is the habit of having habits, of turning a trail into a rut, that must be incessantly fought against if one is to remain alive.
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In spite of illness, in spite even of the arch-enemy sorrow, one can remain alive long past the usual date of disintegration if one is unafraid of change, insatiable in intellectual curiosity, interested in big things, and happy in small ways.
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Another advantage (equally accidental) is that I do not remember long to be angry. I seldom forget a bruise to the soul–who does? But life puts a quick balm on it, and it is recorded in a book I seldom open…

15 respuestas a “Edith Wharton on Ageing by Luisa Zambrotta”

  1. Avatar de luisa zambrotta

    Thanks a lot for reblogging!
    I appreciated it so much, dear Juan

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  2. Avatar de Priscilla Bettis

    Wharton is one of my favorite authors. Putting balm on hurts and then putting them away in a rarely-opened book seems like a wise practice to me. Great post, Luisa!

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    1. Avatar de luisa zambrotta

      I’m glad you enjoyed this post, dear Priscilla ❣️

      Thank you so much for your warm appreciation – It was a pleasure to receive your generous feedback

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  3. Avatar de Meelosmom

    A thoughtful read!

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    1. Avatar de luisa zambrotta

      Thank you so much🙏

      I’m glad you liked this post

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      1. Avatar de Meelosmom

        You’re welcome!

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      2. Avatar de luisa zambrotta

        🙏💐🙏

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  5. Avatar de derrickjknight

    I guess we – especially women – can enjoy happier old age now than in her day.

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    1. Avatar de luisa zambrotta

      I am perfectly aware of that too.

      Thanks for sharing your point of view, dear Derrick!

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    2. Avatar de equipsblog

      LOL, Derrick. When I hastily read your comment, I thought you were commenting as a women or on behalf of women and I immediately thought of Jackie. We have better medicine and modern amenities to help us cope with the issues that accompany aging, yet it still sucks.

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  6. Avatar de Mike U.

    An enlightening look at aging. Congratulations, Luisa, on the publication. 😊

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    1. Avatar de luisa zambrotta

      Thank you so much for your kind words, dear Mike!

      Your thoughts are always truly appreciated🤗

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  7. Avatar de equipsblog

    Brilliant share, cara Luisa. and Happy Birthday, cara sorella.

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  8. Avatar de thomasstigwikman

    Indeed an enlightening view of ageing. She was an amazing woman.

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